Interfaith marriage - Religion Conversion?

She needs to make her own decisions, not do what her parents think is best for her. That will be a problem for the rest of your marriage if you start out that way. You are not asking her to change, but she is pressuring you to do so, and not even because SHE wants you to herself. But because her parents require that she marry someone of the same faith. This is why, in the Christian faith, we are not to be unequally yoked. Someone always has to give up their faith to be on the same page. Neither of you is willing to change. I'd say that's indication that you are not the right match. Plus, you already seem to be at odds as to how the children will be raised. The only resolution that I see is for you to both go your separate ways and marry people who believe as you do.