Could you help me find my weaknesses in my relationship?

I know this is gonna sound really lame but if my boyfriend was going through this dilemma i'd want him to sit me down and talk it through with me, everything you wrote above could be fixed by simply telling your girlfriend all those things, a girl would love for her boyfriend to trust her with his feelings and simply be honest with her about his insecurities i've broken up with guys because they couldn't do that very thing.